I have been having a tough day today. Lately I've been fighting something and you know how you just don't feel yourself but time constraints and other things are demanding of your time and you just can't stop? Yes, one of those. We are human and despite all my best efforts of being "super woman" and can rise above everything, well too much pressure on one self. Anyway, my son came home and asked if he should show me his "rough copy of his project. Let's just say it's just what the Dr ordered and mama bear needed to read/hear. Here it is:
My Hero
My mom is my hero because she thinks of everybody before herself.
She donates food, money & toys to people in need. Without her I might not even be born yet (but don't even make me go there!)
She is also brave because she will take risks & challenges, like she did for ""Fighters for Fighters", "12 Ladies in a Tent" & "One Billion Rising"
She is a kind mother because she listens to my troubles all the time whenever I am upset
All those reasons are why my mother is my hero.
And then he promptly kisses and hugs me and says I'm a kind mother. I know <3 *tear
That, ladies and gentlemen is my why..... those little reminders - always appreciated.
More than 200 people participated in Thursday’s ‘flash mob’ at Five Points. The dance was promoting the ‘One Billion Rising’ (V-Day) campaign which hoped to increase awareness, raise money, and revitalize the spirit of existing anti-violence organizations. MARK WANZEL PHOTO/BARRIE EXAMINER
More than 200 people participated in Thursday’s ‘flash mob’ at Five Points.
The dance was promoting the ‘One Billion Rising’ (V-Day) campaign which hoped to increase awareness, raise money, and revitalize the spirit of existing anti-violence organizations.
The event in Barrie, organized by Shannon Murree, (in front wearing purple hat), was one of thousands taking place worldwide.
In 2012, more than 5,800 V-Day benefit events took place, produced by volunteer activists, educating millions of people about the reality of violence against women and girls both locally and globally. For information, visit www.onebillionrising.org
With nearly 200 countries participating, Shannon Murree of Barrie is organizing a flash mob in conjunction with One Billion Rising, a global awareness campaign focused on the issues of violence against women and children and poverty. The event will take place Thursday, Feb. 14, at 5:15 p.m. at the Five Points parkette. Mark Wanzel /The Barrie Examiner /QMI
Barrie is one of thousands of communities that will take part in the V-Day (One Billion Rising) campaign on Feb. 14.
V-Day promotes creative events to increase awareness, raise money, and revitalize the spirit of existing anti-violence organizations. In 2012, more than 5,800 V-Day benefit events took place, produced by volunteer activists; educating millions of people about the reality of violence against women and girls both locally and globally.
Local realtor Shannon Murree, in conjunction with the Women and Children's Shelter of Barrie, has organized a flash mob to take place on Thursday at the Five Points parkette (across the street from the Mady Centre for the Performing Arts) downtown.
The dance begins at 5:15 p.m. Everyone, men, women and children, are invited to attend and show their support.
The Woman and Children's Shelter of Barrie moved from this Berczy Street location to a new, larger facility in 1991
Jo-Anne David remembers packing her belongings into garbage bags as she prepared to leave her partner two decades ago.
She didn’t know where she was going to go.
She was a francophone who wasn’t originally from Barrie and had two children to take with her.
She just knew she had to leave.
“After years of putting up with emotional abuse and threats … I thought, ‘I’m out of here,’” David said.
As she was throwing the bags into her car, she received a fateful call from a colleague, suggesting she go to the Women and Children’s Shelter of Barrie.
Twenty years later, David is now the executive director of the Francophone Prevention Centre for Violence Against Women and Sexual Assault where she works as a partner with the Barrie shelter and helps women like her younger self.
As a former client and current partner, David has seen the shelter progress through an “amazing journey” over the years.
This journey includes the celebration of a 30th anniversary and the launch of a new $3.5-million project called New Beginnings.
The project’s aim is to fund the development a new affordable housing apartment building in Barrie.
It’s expected to be completed within three years.
The apartments will be second-stage homes for families who have either stayed at the first-stage shelter or who have left an abusive situation recently.
Women and families will be able to reside in one of the 20 units for up to a year.
“During that time they can more forward in their lives,” said Heather Croft, the shelter’s community development co-ordinator.
“Whether it’s going back to school, finding a job or having their rent be less so they can put that money towards moving forward.”
Croft said she’s found more families have been staying longer at the shelter, partly because it’s difficult to find affordable housing in Barrie.
“A lot of the time people are feeling like there’s no hope,” Croft said. “This gives us a chance to say … capture your dreams and this community will be behind you.”
David understands first hand the importance of having a supportive community and a safe place to stay. The five weeks she and her children spent at the shelter in 1993 provided her with newfound peace and security.
She refers to the shelter as her sanctuary and to the staff as angels.
“I’d never seen people that calm,” she said. “I came from an environment where everybody screams and yells.”
The staff offered her support and information about practical matters like legal rights. Instead of forcing the assistance, they helped her empower herself.
“They would let us discover and put words to things,” David said.
This is how she began to see her life more clearly. She realized that violence had become her norm.
While she spent time at the shelter gaining a new peace of mind, the clients and staff became her new community and support system.
During the evenings, David would help out around the shelter, just as a family member would at home, and during the day, she continued on with her life, going to work and dropping her kids off at daycare.
When she was ready to leave, the staff helped her prepare for a fresh start. They sent her off with essentials, like dishes, and pocket change for items she might need.
But most importantly, they helped set her on the path to finding peace.
This wasn’t always easy to achieve in the years after she left.
“I did a lot of going into silence and figuring out my life,” David said.
In 1998, she made a five-year plan and decided to pursue her dream of attending university. Still supporting her children,
she knew this would be difficult, but she took a leap of faith.
“It was like jumping off the CN Tower,” she said. “And free falling.”
She landed on her feet. After graduating from York University with a bachelor’s degree and a certificate in law, David was offered her current position at the francophone prevention centre.
For six years, she’s been able to do what makes her happy.
She now calls herself a “welcome wagon for the francophone community” and takes on a supportive approach to helping others. She’s caring, not overbearing — similar to what she experienced at the shelter.
“I love helping people. I’m about empowering them,” David said. “But I’m not a martyr. I’ll give them the tools, resources, references and say, ‘Go girl.’”
Her past helps her relate to the women she assists and she’s also now able to share her new perspectives with them.
“For women it’s often about family, traditional family, and not being a failure. So when you leave a relationship, that’s considered failure,” David said. “But I call it sucking it up. If I create kids and create that environment for them, I’m only creating that for the next generation.”
Today, she’s achieved a peace that the shelter helped her discover 20 years ago.
“I love life. I always did. But it was just being snuffed out,” she said.
• The early outreach office was small and cramped to the point that one staff member’s office was in the old safe.
• The shelter moved from Berczy Street to the new, larger facility in 1991.
• There was little money to purchase furniture for the outreach office so staff begged and borrowed to furnish the space.
• In 1999 the agency changed its name from the Women’s Crisis Centre to the Women and Children’s Shelter.
• Shelter staff made a close connection with YMCA immigrant services in the 1990s when the Barrie demographics were changing.
• The shelter hired a victim services co-ordinator to work with the Simcoe County District School Board and teach principals, teachers and their support staff about domestic violence.
• In 1995, a young male police officer brought a woman in her mid-70s into the shelter. She was leaving an abusive husband and the officer was very choked up when he told her story. He said the woman reminded him of his grandmother. The woman stayed at the shelter for five months at a time when the average stay was six to eight weeks.
Man convicted in murder of doctor's wife in 2008 saw verdict overturned - Khonsari Case Back in Court
I feel so much for this family. He was a wonderful Dr to my little ones when they were born. So patient and kind. Sad to know he died with this deep pain after the killing of his wife. This is way too close to home.
Barrie Ontario's Mimi Khonsari was kidnapped and murdered in May 2004.
A man who was formerly convicted in the brutal murder of Mimi Khonsari eight years ago made a brief appearance in court Friday in preparation for a new trial.
Clare Spiers, 50, who has lived in Barrie, Toronto and New York, was sentenced to life in prison after a jury found him guilty in 2008.
But three years into his life sentence, the Court of Appeal for Ontario overturned the verdict and ruled he has the right to a new trial after it found the Crown had improperly vetted the jury.
That means that Spiers is now presumed innocent and he has a fresh start with a new trial.
In court, Spiers stood in handcuffs and looked around the court.
It is not known yet whether his lawyer will make an application for a bail hearing.
He is charged with first-degree murder and kidnapping of Khonsari, 60, who was the wife of a prominent Barrie doctor, Homa Khonsari, who recently died.
Spiers is also charged with the kidnapping of Khonsari’s infant grandchild, who was with her on the day she was murdered.
Khonsari’s strangled and stabbed body was found in a wooded area on Ridge Road, north of Barrie, on May 21, 2004. That same day the grandchild was found alive in Khonsari’s car, which was abandoned in a parking lot near the Kozlov mall.
It was not until seven months later that police announced the arrest of Spiers, a door-to-door home renovations salesman who was living on Hickling Trail in Barrie. At the time of his arrest, police said Spiers was not known to the family and that Khonsari’s killing was a random act.
Following his conviction, Spiers’ lawyer took the case to Ontario’s high court, arguing his verdict might have been different if the Crown hadn’t vetted the jury in its favour by using police resources to weed out disreputable people who could possibly be unsympathetic to the Crown’s case.
The high court agreed that, while there was no malicious intent, the information received by the Crown shaped the jury differently than it would have been able to otherwise.
“I conclude that the well-informed and reasonable person would perceive the jury selection process in this case to be unfair,” wrote the appeals court in its recent ruling. “There can be no doubt that the public and an accused would view with grave suspicion a jury selection process that unfairly favours the Crown.”
Spiers will be held at the Central North Correctional Centre in Penetanguishene while awaiting his new trial.
He is scheduled to be back in court for a pretrial hearing on May 22. ByTracy McLaughlin, Special to QMI AGENCY
